Does your Life Serve you?

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If you feel self-love and respect, then every aspect of your life should be serving you. This is not selfishness, rather self-mastery.

Most people are being run by their minds; but you are the boss and you should choose the thoughts that serve you. If you own a company, your life should not just be about paying salaries; are your employees serving your life while you support their lives?

If you own a second car or a vacation home, that asset should be serving you instead of burdening you. Your relationships should be the same–take a piece of notebook paper and remind yourself of all people who drain you versus all those who nourish your Soul. Give priority to the second group.

In terms of your material life, only purchase things that have a high joy-to-Dollar ratio. For example, you might buy a puppy dog for $1,000 and receive fourteen years worth of love and nourishment. Here then, the puppy has a very high joy-to-Dollar ratio.

Give of yourself, but also take what the gift of life offers–you deserve it!

Kambiz Naficy

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You might have spent many years, struggling to accomplish things that others do–just to survive and pay your rent.

Being lost in a big world is really hard.

Perhaps what you could never believe was that God created you to play in this world; to laugh and dance because you were perfectly created and perfectly equipped with unique qualities to survive with Grace!

Do you know that you are here in this life, because The Force wants you to be?

You might have looked everywhere, struggled terribly to collect a few coins or bills; you might have screamed in tension at your spouse or children, wondering what you might do next month…

All of this in vain, because fear and struggle are unwanted in the world of God. All you had to know is that every day, you walk hand in hand with the Force that created you, the Force that loves you unconditionally, the Force that is now breathing within you.

Everything that you were born with, your voice, the color of your eyes, your business acumen, or skills in cooking; all of those were unique gifts so that you might now play, laugh, and dance on Earth while thriving with Grace.

Hard to believe isn’t it?

That’s the only problem…




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Happiness as a decision takes power.

To dive into pain and come up with joy, that’s power.

In a divorce, the one who walks away with love and well-wishes, holds the power.

Perseverance toward a Greater Self demands power.

One mind persuading a million; that takes power.

Power is giving hope to the hopeless.

Having an inner-life with personal boundaries is power.

Contentment in solitude means power.

To have power is to turn an enemy to a friend.

Innocence wields more power than cleverness.

Power means living your Truth above all else.

Those who hold power have seen through fear.

Power means softening around your vulnerabilities then rising to great heights.

 To walk hand in had with the Force that made you, yields power.

Silence holds power; as a person of a few words commands attention.

To be in love with the day, that is power!

Living your life fully is a life empowered.

Take this power and join the circuit

To electrify and inspire.

Kambiz Naficy


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Through the Clouds


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There is someone you love deeply, but he is blind. In your heart you know your love is huge, so don’t forget and move beyond…

Remember the time when your pockets were empty? You knew you were meant for a bigger life, and you never forgot. Now your garden is filled with roses.

One time you were deadly ill, you could hardly move at all. In your Being you heard a lion roar. You kept listening until you turned a mountain on its head.

Remember that time when everything was going wrong? Just when you thought all was lost, a Voice whispered,

This too Shall Pass

Listen to the audio 

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      This too shall pass






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Is Constant Unfolding Possible?


The Self or the Soul is limitless. Your truest Essence which is Pure Light sustaining your physical body, is as Infinite as outer space.

You will never stop unfolding on your journey toward the Soul, because each step that you take towards your Being, your Being will simply float out ten steps further.

This game will go on until your identity transforms from one of a human living in your physical cage to a Being of Light, at One with the Oneness of All.

Unfolding is not possible without courage. By courage I mean the spiritual certainty that the greatest happiness and joy lie in the Unknown.

Each time you dare to defy fear; each time you slip into the vastness of meditation, each time you break through limited beliefs, you are essentially stepping into the Great Unknown where heaven awaits.

Within the Unknown, you will find the heaven of freedom, of flowing with the day, of releasing your ultimate fate to Natural Law.

Love is not a mood; love is wild and the fearful Ego cannot tame this stallion of love. To really unfold, you must love from the core of your Being, without negotiating or haggling for the price of love. The price you pay for love is huge, yet in Absolute Unconditional Love, you will unfold into a Greater Being.

How could you not unfold when every moment of your life is now unfolding before your eyes? You have the choice to resist what the moment brings, but in that case, the moment will continue flowing with or without you.

Resisting the moment is like missing the bus to heaven—over and over again!

Breathe deep and be like an autumn leaf floating on the rapids.

If Light is where you came from, let Light sustain you, and ride that Light back home, when it’s time.

In this way, your unfolding will never stop even after five thousand physical lives.

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Follow my breath down

Into your own breath

As you let us merge

Let the exhalation sink

Like a stone

to the bottom of the ocean

 Sitting on the ocean floor

You will now cease

At the end of the exhalation

all begins to cease

And diminish

Even the one you call

I or “my life story.”


and, just when it seems that all is lost

you expire into a bluish-black


then a new One is born


You touch the heart of a Great Soul


My God!

It is my own Essence that I’ve touched

“I AM THAT” reverberates through your Being

An unexplainable love and light

now courses through each vein

with pulsating waves of bliss

 Aum Shanti Shanti Aum

 Just because all is well…

unreasonable laughter Rises from the belly

just like when you were seven or even three

Yes, all is well, for now I know that the butterfly, the Pacific, the river,

and all the prairies pulsate and breathe

with Intelligence and Consciousness.


Everything is alive and breathing through me!

Even Akasha, the Inifinite space that surrounds me

Is alive and all-embracing



Akasha enters me with the breath

and my skin dissolves with the last exhalation

Finally the inner and the outer walls collapse into One…


Oh my Lord

I have never been alone

Have I?

Is there only

One Pulse?

One Breath?

One Love?

One Life?


How do I thank this Grace?

Such beauty I have never felt

I am bursting from inside-out

Nothing needs to be done

For I have always been

The One

Darling of the Universe

I am you and you are me



Ham saah

Ham Saah

Ham Saah


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My Life


I was looking at the breeze

sliding through the palms


at my happy wife

and happy life


how much work it has taken

to chisel out this life

into a jewel.


“My life” –

the words floated before my eyes

as I floated on Gulf waters.

 How rewarding it would be

If we were all to work at the life

and the craft that we savor

so that we may carve out a jewel called

“my life.”

How decent it would be to protect that life

and wife at any cost,

for they are jewels not to be displayed

to those who have not done

their work of carving out and polishing

what I am calling

 “my life.”

They have gone wrong

and bitter

with false expectations and fantasies

lacking the courage

that it takes

to carve a jewel called

“my life.”

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Keen Awareness

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Lack of awareness lies at the root of human suffering. Anything that you do without attention and mindfulness is in vain and in error.

The ancient Indian yogic scriptures, the Vedas, explain that God is consciousness itself. Because the God force is made of consciousness, for you to be aligned with God and life itself, you must be extremely awake and attentive to the smallest task that you perform moment by moment.

For more than 50 years now quantum physicists are stating that human attention and human intention influence the atoms and electrons, and that we humans can manifest our own destinies by placing our unwavering attention and focus on a particular outcome.

Please do not be absent from your own life; your life needs you! When your attention is absent from your own life; when you do not know your own inner landscape, you are living among the walking dead on earth. Most people are dead and do not feel their inner self. Most people have no clue who they are and they have no clue about their core essence.

Notice how often we humans look for electronic gadgets, other people, and all sorts of distractions in order to spend some time away from ourselves.You must make daily arrangements to meet yourself, to get to know yourself at the very root. Do not back down, do not distract yourself.

Don’t get me wrong, having an inner life is different from being anti-social. Once you come down to greet yourself and truly know yourself, you will fall in love with your own soul. With deep self-love your social life and your love life will improve dramatically.

The way to know yourself is to become easy in your own company. To become easy with your own company you must follow your breathing; you must spend time reading uplifting books; you must write down your diaries; you must spend time in nature; you must spend time with artistic activities; and you must spend time in prayer and meditation. Getting along with yourself requires an inward gaze. Having in inner life and knowing your inner landscape is nothing boring.

On the contrary, people who are always looking for external approval, distractions, and socializing, are in a way beggars begging for the company of superficial things outside of their own being. Being an emotional beggar is a bore.

In order to really know your own inner landscape, you must come face to face with the root of all your issues, fears, and doubts. For example, if you have spent the last 10 years without a mate in seclusion, the root of your problem may not be loneliness at all. The root may lay several layers deeper in your own lack of self-worth and deservedness.

Most people that I know keep themselves busy by just doing. Understand that work holism or pure doingness will not get you to peace and contentment. This is because keeping busy and just doing without knowing who you are and where you are headed is like laying bricks on a building structure without an architectural plan.

Come to understand that nothing on the outside (doing) can change your inside–who you are at your core. For example, if you think that studying for an MBA is going to make you feel more worthy or secure deep down; or if you think that getting a salary increase is going to make you feel more loving and kind, you are wrong! The core of your character can only change when your sub conscious beliefs change about who you are. Greet yourself kindly and more regularly through daily meditation and prayer (inward gaze) in order to develop self-love.

Instead of just distracting yourself by keeping busy, take some time to get to know yourself. Which are your core values? What are your life priorities? What do you like spending your time on most? Which are your true passions? What would you regret not doing if you were to die six months from now?

Write down your goals for the next week, for the next three months, for six months, for the next year and five years. Make sure that your eyes regularly come across your list of goals. Paste pictures that represent the kind of life you are seeking and look at those pictures or symbols regularly. Know that your subconscious mind which controls so much of your future grasps pictures and mental images much better than words and sentences.

In the present moment there is a Presence which we call the Witness in spirituality. When your mind is clear and calm; when there are less thought bubbles in your mind, there is a kind of intelligence that surfaces.That inner tranquility is a quality of the soul, the quality of just being. It is as if there is a very powerful and centered Presence within your inner silence.

Exercises in Staying Present and Gaining Self-Knowledge

  1.  Pay attention to your inner physical sensations in order to feel your own body.
  2. Write or record your daily diaries in order to hear your own voice and and reflect on your own life story.
  3. Take walks and while strolling, pay attention to every minute detail.
  4. Stare up at the sky and with each exhalation, imagine that you are penetrating empty space further and further into oblivion. This exercise will quickly empty your mind.
  5. Follow your inhalation and exhalation with mindfulness as you perform the most menial daily tasks. Breath-meditation makes you very present.
  6. Engage in artistic activities and spend time out in nature.
  7. Each day take a comfortable seat, take 30 long slow breaths, all the while emptying your mind and relaxing your muscles, and then, visualize in full living color and in full detail, already living the life that you want to live three months, six months, or one year from now. Make it a real motion picture and feel the emotions that you would feel already living your ideal life. Remember that your subconscious mind does not recognize the difference between imagined reality and utter reality.
  8. Write down all of your goals where you can see them daily. The writing of goals is a declaration to the subconscious mind that you really mean it!

Many Blessings

Kambiz Naficy

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Surely you have come across situations where you meet a group of people who stand lower than yourself in terms of income, social status, education, manners, and even wisdom.

If you find yourself there, boost your tolerance by first thanking God for all the Grace in your own life. Know that the more you self-actualize; and the more your approach your maximum potential, the more love, forgiveness, and tolerance will flow out of your heart. Personal joy, contentment, and happiness will make you a more tolerant, accepting, and loving person.

When your own cup is full, you will naturally overflow onto others. You will give of yourself to others without being threatened or judging another person as inferior.

A happy and self-actualized life is a huge diamond and you must earn a big diamond. Challenge yourself to the maximum to become the greatest human being that you can become.

It is possible, believe me. Make up your mind, ask the God Force and your Soul for support. Laugh in the face of fear and doubt and put yourself to the test in bigger ways than you ever imagined. See how many Higher Selves you can uncover in your present self. 

When your cup is filled with the glory of who you are and have always been, you will love, forgive, tolerate, and let your greatness touch others.

Much Love

Kambiz Naficy

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