Romance is Paying Attention

Kambiz Naficy (

Many couples undergo divorces or breakups not because there is anything fundamentally wrong with their relationship, but because one or both have forgotten to pay attention to each other.

Mindfulness or attention caries with it the Life Force. When we place our attention on anything, that aspect of our life flourishes–this includes our partner or spouse.

The most romantic thing you could do would be to meditate deeply on your partner. Notice her smile, her scent on the pillow, the dimple on her cheek, the exact color of her eyes. Close your eyes and listen to her voice on the phone. What makes her laugh? What is her greatest passion?

When you meditate that deeply on your partner, you will fall in love ever more deeply.

Working on love takes more courage than breaking a heart.

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