The Gem in your Life

All is Well

Kambiz Naficy (www.joyoflifeorganization.com)

Who is it that can’t stay mad at you, the one who forgives you based on deep and unconditional love?

Who has followed you through all your ups and downs, your life-chapters with nothing but love and acceptance?

Who is it that knows you better than yourself?

Who is it that sees your highest potential, the hidden beauty that you don’t recognize in yourself?

Who wants nothing from you but wishes you the very best?

In whose presence do feel yourself, with no pretense, and very much at ease?

Who is the one who understands your dreams, your passions, your life-calling, the person who lends your courage, inspiration, and encouragement to live out your choices?

When you find this person, bless them, love them, thank them, and send them a huge kiss for the new year.

When you find this person, you have found your treasure!

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Perception Versus Truth

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Kambiz Naficy (www.joyoflifeorganization.com)

When any of us face various events in our lives, we form a momentary and subjective perception about what just happened. A personal perception or impression is not the Truth.

The problem is that personal perception often arises from a mind conditioned by past events. The meanings that we attach to today’s events, are often tainted by our past experiences. Our subconscious mind superimposes past memories on present-day experiences.

This is how we keep recreating our life-dramas over and over again, because we are viewing today through the lens of yesterday.

Let us say that you were asked to the high school prom by the wrong guy and that prom night in a nano-second you perceived yourself to be “unpopular.” Now, twenty four years later, a momentary perception that you formed twenty four years ago negatively influences how you present and handle yourself at parties. In other words, your social thermostat is still set for “unpopular.”

If you want to be free of self-limiting beliefs that you formed years ago, just go back and find the root of the original wrong perception; revise your perception at this age—you will immediately feel better and your behavior and life-results will change.

Never try to over-analyze past events; you cannot change events that already happened. It is a lot easier to change your impression (perception) of what really happened way back when.

Joyous Holidays

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Illusion of Fear

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Think of all your worries that never materialized. Keep a notebook for a week with the following columns:

Initial Expectation (Anxiety & Worry)              Actual Outcome (Reality)

Do some reality-testing for a week, and see what percentage of your worrisome expectations about the future actually materialized in the way you imagined.

You create a tiger in your mind, and are terrified that your tiger will eat you! Psychological fears are not real; they are puffs of smoke. 

Nothing that you create can destroy its creator!

Wake up each morning and vow to walk through one puff of fear that day. Life will blossom til infinity.

Much Love

Kambiz Naficy (www.joyoflifeorganization.com)

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Romance is Paying Attention

Kambiz Naficy (www.joyoflifeorganization.com)

Many couples undergo divorces or breakups not because there is anything fundamentally wrong with their relationship, but because one or both have forgotten to pay attention to each other.

Mindfulness or attention caries with it the Life Force. When we place our attention on anything, that aspect of our life flourishes–this includes our partner or spouse.

The most romantic thing you could do would be to meditate deeply on your partner. Notice her smile, her scent on the pillow, the dimple on her cheek, the exact color of her eyes. Close your eyes and listen to her voice on the phone. What makes her laugh? What is her greatest passion?

When you meditate that deeply on your partner, you will fall in love ever more deeply.

Working on love takes more courage than breaking a heart.

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Work with People’s Beliefs

Kambiz Naficy (www.joyoflifeorganization.com)

Never try to change someone against their will, instead manage their personality and quirks–work with their personality and beliefs, not against them. If you find what makes someone tick, what their core beliefs are, you can work with those same beliefs to solicit their cooperation.

In the history of the world, no one has ever influenced another while working against the later’s beliefs.

Wherever you get off the plane, no matter which distant land, as you set foot on that land, ask yourself one question, “What do these people believe in? What are they passionate and emotional about? What core beliefs and values do they live and fight for?

When you find these answers, you have access to people’s subconscious minds; once you control a person’s subconscious, you enter their heart.When a person thinks that your beliefs jive with theirs, you suddenly become their blood brother or sister.

After that, my friend, it is just smooth sailing! Oh, one last thing though, use this philosophy to better the lives of  those that you are influencing.

Much Love and Joyous Holidays

Kambiz Naficy

www.joyoflifeorganization.com

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Love is Real

Kambiz Naficy (www.joyoflifeorganization.com)

The only things in life that are real are the ones that last. Our bodies, cars, money, and bodies don’t last. Love is the only thing that lasts.

Right before your last exhalation you will only remember two things:

Who gave you love

Whom you gave love to

Think of yourself as an energy-field or a bank account–deposits of energy must exceed withdrawals of energy on a daily basis. Those with proper energy-management, live joyous lives.

Draw one column down a piece of white paper. On the left side jot down the names of people and those activities that fill you with love and hope. On the right side, note those that drain you of energy and life-force. This week give your energy and attention to those aspects of life that fulfill and uplift you.

You always have a choice, dear friend.

Kambiz Naficy (www.joyoflifeorganization.com)

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Illusion of Fear

www.Joyoflifeorganization.comKambiz Naficy

Think of all your worries that never materialized. Keep a notebook for a week with the following columns:

Initial Expectation (Anxiety & Worry)              Actual Outcome (Reality)

Do some reality-testing for a week, and see what percentage of your worrisome expectations about the future actually materialized in the way you imagined.

You create a tiger in your mind, and are terrified that your tiger will eat you! Psychological fears are not real; they are puffs of smoke. 

Nothing that you create can destroy its creator!

Wake up each morning and vow to walk through one puff of fear that day. Life will blossom til infinity.

Much Love

Kambiz Naficy (www.joyoflifeorganization.com)

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